We all have experienced or seen women acting like total idiots too, not that they should get beaten for it but y'all know what I mean. It's totally wrong for him to hit you but you were also wrong. You can't act like you want to fight a man, hit a man, and all kind of shit then when he snaps start talking about "he hit a woman". I see some chicks really trying to fight men, it's unbecoming. As men we have to have more control over ourselves and if someone brings out the worst in us we have to get away from that situation.Īnd lastly to the ladies, stop trying to act like men, keep it classy and please act lady-like. I've been in some toxic relationships where according to some of these commenters they deserved to get hit but I can't, I know how I felt about myself that one time and it was nothing crazy, not like I beat her unconscious, she was fighting, but I still was totally ashamed of myself.
It was some sucka shit, I admit it, but I learned from it and never touched a woman since. I know I fucked up growing up and hit my first baby Momma ONCE, and feel horrible to this day. I love Joe and don't think he would do these things now but his total denials is kinda crazy, I think he should say I fucked, I've grown, apologize and lets move on. The part that gets me is how he talks about domestic abuse whenever it comes up, as if he's never done anything like that, I don't get it. I think we can all agree that Joe was grown a lot and he has documented his mental health issues and past drug use so I'm sure he's done a lot of shit he's no longer proud of as many of us have. But it's all about growth, healing and evolving and self awareness! Radical self awareness. We all humans growing up in a toxic society. 2/3 things can be true: she could have been abusive, she could be convienantly revealing it now, AND he could have actually punchd her in the ribs.Īnd not to ride Charla's cocktail cause his goofy ass is far from perfect, but even he just recently admitted to putting his hands on a women when he was young. But he's response to me was (predictably) manipulative. I'd respect it fam just said he made mistakes when he was young, immature and still operating as boy and not a man yet, and left it at that. Same way I feel this culture conditions white people to be racist by default, we men are conditiond to inherently posses toxic masculinity and a mysoginist worldview. But I do believe without a doubt that he has been mentally, emotionally and physically abuse to women in the past. The link to Vado grabbing Tahiry on Marriage Boot Camp.Īlso, I got genuine love for Budden an the whole JBP I'm an avid Listener. I cant speak to the specific incidents about what injuries occured but I 100% believe they were both abusive based off of her behavior on national TV. So I believe Joe when he said they were both toxic to each other.
He snapped after she started saying she didn't know what was wrong with him even though she was the clear instigator initially. He got so angry about that and it kind of exploded at the scene where he grabbed her. Right before the incident where he put his hands on her, Tahiry threw a big ass green apple directly at his face. She emasculated him constantly and threw things at him. But what maybe wasn't trending in regards to that situation was how abusive Tahiry was to Vado before he put his hands on her. If yall remember or are aware, Vado grabbed Tahiry on there.
So I watch Marriage Boot Camp and Tahiry and Vado are guest on there. So I usually don't comment on these types of things but I feel like people don't have the context I do so I just wanted to share.
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